Sushmita Regmi storytelling the rape case, via Tiktok videos, while she was just 16 years old |
The rise of Sushmita Regmi's case
The
rape case of Ms Sushmita Regmi got into media limelight in the third week of
May 2022 after the victim, out of nowhere, uploaded twenty short videos in
Tiktok from the username @Sushikhanajaneho. The same Tiktok videos are also
uploaded in her Instagram handle: @allaboutdewyskin on 18th May 2022.
Who
is Sushmita Regmi?
According
to her social media profile she likes to call herself as a freelancing makeup
artist. Since childhood she wanted to be a model. So, during her teenage years
when she was 16, she participated in one of the beauty pageants called 'Miss Grand International 2014' and became the
first runner up (second position). She studied BSc Computer Science and
Information Technology (CSIT) and now (as of 2022 May) doing her Masters of
Arts in Psychology.
Who
Raped Sushmita Regmi?
The
above discussed beauty pageant was organized by the Model Global Visas
Consultancy, Bhakti Thapa Sadak, Kathmandu in the year 2014. While she declines
to give the names of any of her predators, it is known that Manoj Pandey is the
very promoter of the same consultancy and he was the one who called Sushmita
Regmi after the pageant and said to come at Hotel Everest, Baneshwore, for the
success party of the same beauty event where she was the first runner up. After
Sushmita reached Hotel Everest in ecstasy and saw no one except Manoj, she
asked where were everybody else. Mr. Pandey said that the party was deemed to
be started after 6PM and told Sushmita to take rest and have a lemonade. She
drank the lemonade that they served and was drowsy after sometimes.
Where
was Sushmita Regmi raped?
The
story is continuing from above. Mr. Pandey told that this was okay with the
girls to feel tipsy sometimes and also told that was why he had reserved hotel
rooms at the Hotel Everest so that girls could get rest whenever needed. She
was taken in one of the rooms and was raped when she was only half-conscious
due to the effect of something they mixed up in the lemonade. They might have
used sedatives in it. When her consciousness returned, she noticed that she and
Mr Manoj were lying on bed, stark-naked. Mr Manoj offered Sushmita with NPR 20K
and made her guilty by saying that she was the one who was begging for sex so
that she could bag some money. Moreover, Mr Manoj also warned Sushmita not to
tell the incident to anybody or else he would divulge her photos and videos
that he had shot while she was sleeping with him. Out of fear, she could tell
the incident to nobody and the process went on for over six months.
Who
was the culprit photographer?
Mr
Manoj would call Sushmita whenever he wanted to have sex. There was one
photographer as well who was involved in the pageant and was a close friend of
Mr Manoj Pandey. The photographer took modeling photos of Sushmita Regmi. When
the incidents of rape was continuing for over a semester, Mr Manoj would also
allow his photographer friend Mr Shreedhar Poudel to come by and have sex with
her. Mr Shreedhar Poudel is the photo-journalist for Shukrabar, a weekly portal
of Nagarik news group. He also works in various online media. That was why
Sushmita was afraid that they would leak her photos in the public domain.
How
is Malvika Subba associated in this case?
The
early said beauty pageant was choreographed by Malvika Subba where she tutored
25 contestants, one of them being Sushmita Regmi. After six months of those
continuing multiple rape events, Sushmita Regmi told her boyfriend Mr x Khadka.
They (Sushmita and Mr x Khadka) went to Model Global Visas Consultancy and brought
the case open to all the staffers. Mr Khadka also slapped Manoj Pandey and had
the photos/videos deleted from his cellphone. The same day, at the same moment,
Sushmita called Malvika for help. While Malvika's side of the story is
different, according to Sushmita Regmi, Malvika fluffily quipped that it was her problem
and not Malvika's and shortly she dismissed the call. Malvika asserts that she
did not dismissed the call in such a bleak ignorance as Sushmita portrayed and
that, even though she forgot the details, the word 'rape' was not mentioned in
the call because if it was mentioned she would have taken it very seriously and act promptly on resolving the issue.
Malvika
Subba was the role model of Sushmita Regmi and she looked up to her in a hope
that she would do something to rescue her out of the melancholy. Sushmita presumes
that Malvika, as a feminist and famed media influencer, would have saved her right
then and right there but unfortunately it did not happen and Sushmita suffered
long years of perturbation and mental afflictions. More, even today when
Sushmita sees Malvika on TV shows or papers, it triggers her depression, as claimed
on her videos. Malvika has begged apologies and has promised that she would not
occupy any media space until Sushmita says so or do whatever is needed to give
Sushmita justice.
What
Next?
After
the videos caught media sensation, youths gather around in Baluwatar Prime
Minister's abode, Maitighar and even few places outside Kathmandu valley to protest
for the justice of Sushmita Regmi and to penalize the sexual predators. The
issue was raised in the parliament too by Nepali Congress CA member Mr Gagan
Thapa and consequently, chairperson Agni Kharel relegated the government to take necessary
actions for the case. Minister of Home Affairs Honorable Balkrishna Khand
formed a four member investigation committee to solve the case and Mr Manoj Pandey
has been arrested from Swayambhu on 21st May 2022 to start over the
investigation. Various advocates have suggested that there is a legal hurdle in order to criminalize Mr Pandey because the victim of sexual harassment and abuse should report to the police within one year of the incidence. Now, with the Sushmita Regmi case, it can be predicted that the 'one-year' time limit would be wiped out. The correction to the old act is due to Parliament saying "If there are substantial grounds to support that the victim could not report to the police at the time of incidence and beyond, then the case can be filed at anytime appropriate later on." This is a very big move indeed.
Lessons
from this case
Lesson
number one: everybody wants to be famous and really a few are prepared to
handle the image, personality and stardom after getting the popularity. In
today's era of Tiktok and all, it takes only a fluke of a few seconds to be a
media sensation that makes you a celebrity. There were high chances of being
sexually harassed on the process of being a celebrity but the chances are even
higher today to keep being one. So the event should warn all the
parents to assure a safe environment for their children until they cross a legal
age. Rape and harassment are really present, and it is there. The problem is
that we don't see it now. See, Sushmita speaks out after 8 goddam years.
There might be some daughters out there who will speak after another eight.
Lesson
number two: Look at us now where we are standing. The twenty-first century has
really equipped us with the internet and social media and these are so very
powerful tools to convey your message to the mass and bring about changes
overnight. A short video can provoke people to go for a mass protest,
criminalize the culprits, give justice to the victims and amend the laws
eventually. Is not this so beautiful? If you have the right cause, you can do it all by yourself!
Lesson number three: the news really flushes out the dark and bitter reality of various so-called beauty pageants open. Beauty pageants starts from school days nowadays and glamour field is so deeply penetrated to our lifestyle as culture that we seem to be okay with it. A very few seem to raise voices about the critical aspects: the licensure, monitoring, social audit, freedom of speech of the contestants, etc,. Also, once you are the winner, you should keep in mind that it is not easy to maintain the crown and this responsibility is for a lifetime. For example, let's try to look at this case from Malvika's perspectives, she won Miss Nepal long ago. Since she is now a well-known media personality and a sex violence proponent, she might be contacted by a large number of girls every now and then intimating that they are being sexually assaulted. She should not dismiss a single case or else, there is a high possibility that another Sushmita will come out in the open, dissatisfied and outraged. Malvika is now seen so very publicly criticized for not being able to rescue the poor girl. She has even issued many pages of clarification on the situation. So, it is very difficult to maintain the responsibility of being a celebrity, especially when you are the heart and role model of many wannabe beauty pageant winners.
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